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R Next Door has decided that she's Not Speaking to me, now. It may have something to do with my neglecting to contain my disgust the last time she went into hysterics about how I should be on YouTube exercising clumsily. Then she asked about Amazy, after the kidney diagnosis and dental money shock. I was feeling ill, and said I couldn't talk about it for a few days, until I felt strong enough to cope with her remarks. (She told me not to have the extraction(s), etc., and was sure the thyroid treatment would cause kidney trouble...) So now it seems we don't talk at all. If I say anything, she just makes frostily polite response. ('I yam well, thankyew.')  It's bizarre, but I'll be really upset if it continues. Abusive as she undoubtedly is, it's nice to have a 'friend' right next door, and she is so good with the animals. I need a break from her now and then, but this is unpleasant. She's also said many times that once she goes off someone, that's it.
I was still coughing and dozy all day yesterday, then couldn't sleep at night, and I'm all coughing again, now. Exercising is really hard._IMG_NEW_IMG_0001_NEW

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See how it goes, of course, but she's also said how very important you are to her (when she was going on about how you were going to expire from your operation), so I can't imagine she will want to go on very long without you.

She's done it before, though. In her b&w world, you don't just have a tiff and carry on, you are Finished Forever. Fingers crossed, though.Life's too short for such shit. Maddening as she is, she's not all bad.

If you let the situation with R next door just drift, all that will happen is that you will drift further apart.

Even if you are the innocent party you have to be the bigger person here. You need to knock on her door, bearing a peace offering...a cake from the supermarket (if she eats such a thing)or a packet of doggie treats for her dog or some such thing.

Tell her that you seem to have gotten her off-side and that you are sorry that you have been 'difficult' lately. But you have been feeling ill with the lurgy that you can't shift, worried about Amazy, side swiped with the size of the vet bill. All those things combined to push you over the edge and you took it out on her.

Or knock on her door without the peace offering, but knock on her door. The worse thing that can happen is that she will shut the door in your face, if that happens you are no worse off than you are now.

Go on...go knock...

Well, I keep trying to be friendly, but she just snubs me. Meh.

Keep trying and hopefully you will wear her down, plus tell you you're sorry

Edited at 2013-10-07 05:10 am (UTC)

R Next Door has decided that she's Not Speaking to me, now.

Uh Oh! Maybe she sneaked a peek on LJ of your journal!

It's a shame, where will you find another person so lacking in self awareness to make ironic mock of? She has been a pleasure to read about and look at.

Yes, it's really sad. Of course, if she's actually seen my doodles, she has reason to be pissed off, BUT I do them to help me cope with the horrible stuff she constantly says, without losing my temper! I can't really afford to lose a friend of any kind, though, and will really miss her(and mocking her!)if this keeps up.

Edited at 2013-10-09 06:55 am (UTC)

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